I had my first home study and the case worker asked me what was my ideal child. I informed the case worker I don’t have an ideal child. I stated I would know her (trying to adopt a girl 3-7) when I see her. The case worker stated I would not meet the child until I agreed to adopt her. That I understand…..mostly. But she also stated she wont even show me a photo before I agree to proceed with the child???? Is this normal?? She made me feel like I was being ‘assigned’ a child instead of matched with one. This really discouraged me. Has anyone else had a similar evperience?
- Posted by Lavonne80 to Illinois Adoptive Families on Jul 28, 2011 at 3:10am | 2 Comments | Post a reply