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UPDATE!!!!! Waiting on their decision...


************* We received the news this morning that we have been chosen to parent those kiddos!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am beyond excited! I don’t even know what to do with myself!!!!! Got a lot of stuff to plan and do. Yay!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!*********

SO are still waiting to hear what was decided in the Best Interest Staffing. It was last Thursday the 12th but it seems like an eternity!!!! Our worker said they gave her the impression they would have their decision that day but then it goes to SRS (DCF, CPS, different names in different states) to give the final approval.
Well we haven’t heard anything until today! They asked for a budget sheet withOUT my income. See, if we get these kiddos I plan to be a SAHM, at this time I am still employed. I’m so excited to get any news/questions, but I’m wondering, do you think this means they have chosen us and are just making sure we can financially support the kiddos? I am confident that with DH’s income alone and my SSI (I’m disabled so if I don’t work I get SSI) we will be fine. I mean, I’m not going to celebrate just yet, but I hope this means we were chosen!!!!!
Input? Advice? Experience????

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How exciting!  The budget sheet might be a bit of a hoop for you to jump through for them, but I know we had to fill one out too, in the process of adopting.  Do you know if your kids will be receiving a subsidy?  That will help you out financially too, but it sounds like you have things already financially in order.

Posted by JoFo on Apr 24, 2012 at 6:35pm

I don’t have any experience…yet (but still hoping)!  I say be glad they’re asking you for more information.  Sometimes I think this whole process is a lot like applying for a job.  So, think of it as being asked back for a 2nd interview.  It’s still not a “sure thing”...because who knows how many other applicants there are.  But it is a great sign that you’re still being considered.  I’ll be hoping with you that you & your DH get “hired.”  grin

Posted by Lara on Apr 24, 2012 at 6:38pm

Thanks!
I did ask if they would receive a subsidy a while back but never got a clear answer. Anything helps! Especially when you go from a family of 3 to 6! smile

In the very beginning (many moons ago) we filled out a budget sheet. But in this particular case with the 3 kiddos, I decided that if we did get them, I would stay home. So, they wanted to know what our budget would look like without my job.
There was one other family for the staffing and like I said, we think they made their decision on the 12th. It’s now in SRS’s hands, they are the ones who requested our budget, not the people in the staffing. I know I know, confusing!
I hope we get the job!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted by SunnieMom81 on Apr 24, 2012 at 6:59pm

I hope your dream comes true.  It’s exciting and awesome!

Posted by VintageMom on Apr 24, 2012 at 8:33pm

Congrats, like you know, different in different states.  In Indiana they asked us in the beginning and right before we finalized our adoption what our finances looked like.

Posted by rainablu on Apr 26, 2012 at 3:07am

Congrats

Posted by beakergirl73@yahoo.com on Apr 26, 2012 at 3:14am

I’m so excited for you.  When you first mentioned them I got goose bumps!  Your life is about to change.

Posted by gqqfier15 on Apr 26, 2012 at 5:54am

Full steam ahead—on a wonderful adventure!  Congratulations.

Posted by VintageMom on Apr 26, 2012 at 11:10am

Congrats!

Posted by juliec on Apr 26, 2012 at 4:58pm

Congrats SunnieMom! Look in your states adoption handbook (available by a search online) to see what the guidelines for a subsidized adoption are. For my state they need to be over 5 yrs, have mental/physical issues OR be a part of a sibling group they don’t want to separate. I am adopting 8 yr old twins and they get a subsidy. I’ve heard before that you need to fight for that subsidy in some states so it’s worth looking into. Kids can be expensive and every little bit counts toward giving them the best. It might just mean you could take them on vacation or something. Anyway, Congrats again and enjoy them!!

Posted by Fiona9167 on Apr 26, 2012 at 5:02pm

Congratulations!!!  So exciting for you and your family!  Tell us more details!

Posted by JoFo on Apr 26, 2012 at 6:05pm

wink Congrats

Posted by mandymichelle on Apr 28, 2012 at 4:34am

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