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Setting Boundaries for Bio-Grandmother
We have tried to establish a relationship with our children’s bio-grandmother. Over time she has become very pushy and almost demanding. I should also let you know that she has some emotional issues. She does not seem to understand boundaries or feel like she should comply with them. We have found out through the case workers, that she harassed them continually. We email her and have seen her in person at a public place twice. We have tried to be kind and as pleasant as possible, but she continues to be more and more aggressive in her correspondence. Although I would want for my children to have some kind of biological connection. I am concerned. Do any of you have laid boundary lists and what you will and will not comply with? She seems to want and open door relationship with us and that is not going to happen. It seems to nicer you are and the more you correspond with her she sees that as a complete relationship. Any advice is appreciated.
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