my husband and I have 5 kids. Our 3 boys are adopted from foster care. We live in NJ. Two of our three boys are brothers by birth.
It has been a long road, but we would not change anything.
What age group are you looking to adopt? Do you want boys or girls? What about medical problems?
When we were taking in foster kids we didn’t want any kids that were over six, because we had our girls and we didn’t want them to feel like they had any compitation.
After we had our one son, who was still our foster son, he started having seziures. we then had to go to classes through DYFS.
Then the second boys was born with a list of medical conditions. But we did alot of reading and talked to doctors and other parents who have been through what we have.
Now all three boys are ours. We are a multicultural family..so we do get looks and questions when we go out. But we will talk to anyone who is polite and nice to our boys. Plus I think it has been a very good for our girls.
Good luck..I hope that all works out well.