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Planning for a Homestudy
Posted: 14 July 2010 11:10 AM   Ignore ]  
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In her post Looking Back: The International Adoption Journey Begins, blogger Stacy Clark explains the love, fear, hope, paperwork—and housework that went into preparing for her homestudy. What did you do, or are you doing, to get ready?

Posted: 15 July 2010 02:03 PM   Ignore ]  
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Stacy,

Your piece reminded me of the hours I spent cleaning and organizing everything, including our storeroom, in preparation for our first homestudy. I wanted everything to be perfect (but sadly, our social worker wasn’t looking for perfection.) I forced her to look at the perfectly organized storeroom even though she didn’t care to—I wanted credit!! I was so happy when she wrote in the homestudy “Housekeeping standards are excellent.” After the arrival of three children, our housekeeping standards are nonexistent, which is how it should be, I guess. Thanks for an enjoyable read.

Sharon

Posted: 16 July 2010 12:22 PM   Ignore ]  
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“Our family may not be altogether as good as we look on eight pounds of notarized paper, but we have one essential quality for adopting a child on our side: Love.”

I LOVE the way you wrote that.  Made my heart skip a beat.  Couldn’t have said it any better about that moment.