Because They Need to Know
Parents who adopted transracially live in constant tension: how thoroughly should we prepare our kids for the ugliness that exists in the world? How carefully should we guard their innocence?





Life as a visible family can be challenging, but it's never dull
Parents who adopted transracially live in constant tension: how thoroughly should we prepare our kids for the ugliness that exists in the world? How carefully should we guard their innocence?
I want my children to feel gratitude for the fact that we're a family, as my husband and I do, but not indebted to us for adopting them.
For years, I tripped over the toy fire truck, a present on my Ethiopian-born son's fourth birthday, his first in the United States. Now that he's 9, he wants to give the truck away. Why is letting go so hard?
Children get pegged with all kinds of labels at school, some good and some not-so-good. How should parents respond?
No matter what the age at placement, every adopted child joins her new family bearing a personal history, but children like mine, who were older at adoption, arrive with a cache of formative memories and life experiences.
Helping shape internationally adopted children's cultural identities is a challenge, but I've found doing this helps
Talking to your child's teacher about adoption and/or race in the classroom can feel intimidating, but one mother has learned it's worth the effort.
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